
Wouldn't life
be boring if we didn't have a variety of things to stimulate our
minds? Too much stimulus, however, can be a problem too - it can
actually harm our health. Stress makes itself felt with mental,
social, and physical symptoms which include exhaustion, loss
of/increased appetite, headaches, crying, sleeplessness, and
oversleeping. When stress becomes overwhelming, it prevents us from
functioning efficiently.
Those symptoms are bad enough - some people make
stress even more of a problem in their life when they try to escape
through alcohol, drugs, or other compulsive behaviors. When people ar
eunder stress, they report feelings of alarm, frustration, or apathy.
Adjusting to college life can be stressful, but making
healthy adjustments is part of the experience. It can be an excellent
opportunity to learn more about ourselves and how we can handle
different situations. Stress Management is the ability to maintain
control when situations, people, and events make excessive demands.
Truly, this is an important life-skill.

Short Term Physical Symptoms. The body responds
to stress by releasing adrenaline. While this can feel uncomfortable,
it is nature's way of getting us ready to quick action. Signs of
stress that are felt immediately to a stressful situation include:
We all feel stress from time to time. Most people that read these
lists of short term and long term symptoms will be able to recognize
and identify with a few of them. That is not a cause for alarm.
A person that recognizes many of the symptoms, however, might
benefit from looking at stress management techniques, especially if
they are experiencing change in their lives.
Adapted from, The Book of Stress
Survival:
How to Relax and Live Positively by Alix Kirsta

When people are faced with situations that require
change, many experience stress. Stress can be good - it is a normal
response to situations that can be threatening. Stress that overwhelms
or causes negative feelings can prevent us from doing things we want
or need to do.
In many ways, we create stress by the way we look at
situations. Feeling "stressed-out} is a result of how we interpret a
situation. Different people can look at the same situation and have
very different levels of stress. For example, getting an "F" on a quiz
is likely to upset most students.
Some might interpret this as an "early warning" that
it is time to change their study habits - probably a positive
reaction. Others might see this failure as a devastating setback of
their dreams and ambitions. Clearly, this second response can be a
problem.

An education changes a person in many ways - change
can cause stress. Part of the value of a college education is learning
to handle and succeed when given constant challenges and demands to
meet higher expectations. These are important life-skills and
represent an important aspect of a good education.
Students are not only challenged in class, however,
the college experience is also about "finding yourself," developing
independence, responsibility for our lives, acceptance from peers,
exposure and acceptance of the different values of others, and even
intimate relationships.
During their college years students experience
constant challenge and demand for adjustment and change. Along with
academic pressures, students are seeking independence and autonomy
from their parents and responsibility for themselves, acceptance from
their peers in a world of mixed values, and more intimate
relationships.
Of particular concern to many students is "test
anxiety" -- the brain's reduced ability to process information while
under severe stress. One of the most effective ways to deal with
stress is to turn to and share the burden with others that care about
you - developing and using a support system to cope. Most students,
however, are away from "home" and their families.
Not only can the college experience itself create
stress; many will need to develop new support systems and techniques
to manage that stress. Learning how to cope with stress and turn it
into power and purpose will be a valuable skill.

Stress can affect us physically, emotionally,
behaviorally and mentally.

Perhaps the first step in learning to cope with stress
is to remember that it is a necessary part of life. It cannot be
eliminated - we need some stress in our lives to conquer challenges
and to grow
Getting the most out of college means learning to deal
effectively with stress by applying physical, behavioral and cognitive
coping strategies. There are many different ways to accomplish this -
lets look at some general principles:
Physical Strategies. This starts with learning to relax.
With relaxation training, offered by many university health and
counseling services, students learn to balance stress responses and
while enhancing their ability to think clearly. Another technique for
relaxing is meditation. Often, we can balance stress in our lives by
simply maintaining regular exercise, eating properly, and getting an
adequate amount of sleep. Some students are shy about getting involved
with student health services - try to take advantage of as many
on-campus resources as possible.
Behavioral Strategies. How we act and react can influence
our perceptions of stress. Learning to efficiently manage time is a
great way to start dealing with stress. Make and maintain a schedule
of available time, assignments, work hours, social commitments, and
every other activity of the day. Then, determine priorities among the
things that are to be accomplished on the schedule. Many of us can
avoid stress altogether if we effectively use our time. The key is to
establish realistic and achievable goals and create balance between
academic, work, and social demands and activities.
Attitude Adjustment. Physical and behavioral strategies are
important, but it is also important to developing healthy thoughts and
beliefs about stress. Keeping situations in their proper perspective
can alleviate many stressful situations. Sometimes, what first appears
to be a threatening situation is not really as bad as it seems. It can
be helpful to ask yourself, "What is the worst that could happen?"
Deciding what it will take to live a meaningful life can help keep
things in perspective. If we are being honest with ourselves, most of
the time "worst case" is something that we can work to overcome. For
some, it can be helpful to clarify what one wants out of life and to
re-examine choices we are making.
Talk About Stress. Often, the most effective way to deal
with stress is to discuss the problem with a friend or counselor. This
can be especially important when getting started with a stress
management plan. Just speaking your mind is sure to help and the
dialog with another person will provide valuable insight to the
situation. Don't be afraid to start this important stress management
technique with a professional counselor - learning to talk through
problems is an important life-skill.
Relaxation Techniques. Stress and relaxation are essential
opposites. Anything we can do to calm down will tend to make us feel
better about a stressful situation. Different things work for
different people. Some techniques are as simple as finding humor or
listening to soft music. Practicing a musical instrument, meditation,
deep muscle relaxation, visualization, and even hypnosis are all ideas
that work for some people.
Remember, stress is caused by events affect us -
often, beyond our control. It isn't actually the event itself,
however, that causes the stress. It's the how we look at the stressful
event.
People are powerless over their emotions, but we can
change how we feel about things by change the way we act and think.
Creating a new understanding about a situation can eliminate stress.
Being able to honestly say we have done everything that is within our
control to help the situation can also help.

Tips For Reducing Stress
Learn To Plan. Disorganization can breed
stress. Having too many projects going simultaneously often leads to
confusion, forgetfulness, and the sense that uncompleted projects are
hanging over your head. When possible, take on projects one at a time
and work on them until completed.
Recognize And Accept Limits. Most of us set
unreasonable and perfectionistic goals for ourselves. We can never be
perfect, so we often have a sense of failure or inadequacy no matter
how well we perform. Set achievable goals for yourself.
Learn To Play. You need occasionally to escape
from the pressures of life and have fun. Find pastimes which are
absorbing and enjoyable to you no matter what your level of ability
is.
Be A Positive Person. Avoid Criticizing Others.
Learn to praise the things you like in others. Focus upon the good
qualities those around you possess. Be sure to give yourself credit
and appreciate your own good qualities, as well.
Learn To Tolerate And Forgive. Intolerance of
others leads to frustration and anger. An attempt to really understand
the way other people feel can make you more accepting of them. Accept
and forgive yourself also.
Avoid Unnecessary Competition. There are many
competitive situations in life that we can't avoid. Too much concern
with winning in too many areas of life can create excessive tension
and anxiety, and make us unnecessarily aggressive.
Get Regular Physical Exercise. Check with your
physician before beginning any exercise program. You will be more
likely to stay with an exercise program if you choose one that you
really enjoy rather than one that feels like pure hard work and
drudgery.
Learn A Systematic, Drug-Free Method Of Relaxing.
Meditation, yoga, or any of a variety of relaxation techniques can be
learned from various accredited teachers and licensed
psychotherapists.
Talk Out Your Troubles. Find a friend, member
of the clergy, faculty member, counselor, or psycho-therapist you can
be open with. Expressing your "bottled up" tension to a sympathetic
ear can be incredibly helpful.
Change Your Thinking. How we feel emotionally
often depends on our outlook or philosophy of life. Changing one's
beliefs is a difficult and painstaking process. There is little
practical wisdom in the modern world to guide us through our lives. No
one has all the answers, but some answers are available.

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